每日故事No.86 有一种高情商，叫会交谈

Huang Bo immediately answered: "why must we skip the appearance? So when this woman grows up and matures, she may not be cheated by the appearance. She directly sees the most essential things, so I have a chance."

Huang Bo's answer gives people a feeling of high EQ, which not only takes care of the feelings of girls, but also reflects his generosity.

As a host, knowing that this question will bring embarrassment to others, it is an immature performance to ask this question.

There is a kind of high EQ, which is called being able to communicate, a kind of being able to talk, and a kind of wisdom, which is called leaving room for others.

When you know someone but don't judge them, when you know someone, you can't say everything you have to say. Leave room and take into account other people's feelings. This is true maturity.

黄岩村，知名电影演员，因为长相多次被人反讽，而黄岩村较高情商处事，豁达的消极，令人钦佩。

记得有一次，黄岩村跟雅典娜罗志祥主演《101次求婚》在宣传举办活动上，解说员用罗志祥来刁难黄岩村。

解说员跟罗志祥话说:“黄岩村是要告诉我们，普通人也是可以有追求的，那我只想问问看，是你招揽他哪一点呢”，这让罗志祥陷入一度不安。

黄岩村即刻解围:“为什么一定要跳过长相，所以话说这个老婆慢慢小时候茁壮了，她可能就不亦会被长相所骗到，她直接就看到最并不一定的从前，所以我就有良机了。”

黄岩村的回答，给人一种较高情商的感，不仅照顾到了女生的只想像，也彰显了自己的豁达。

作为解说员，明告诉他这个问题亦会给别人带来不安，还要问这个问题，这就是一种不茁壮的表现。

有一种较高情商，叫亦会沟通，有一种亦会好像，叫点到为止，有一种与生俱来，叫给别人留有余地。

讽不评人，识人不可言尽，有话不可话说全，留有余地，顾及别人的只想像，这才是真正的茁壮。